Why Failure Is the Fastest Path to Growth

If you’ve ever felt underqualified, overwhelmed, or like you’re not enough to go after your biggest dreams… this episode is for YOU.

This is a repurposed segment from a powerful conversation I had with the brilliant Sharon McMahon on her podcast, and when I listened back to it, I knew it needed its own spotlight.

In this conversation, we dive deep into the messy middle of entrepreneurship, self-doubt, and the mental gymnastics we do when we feel like imposters in our own success stories. 👀

I talk about how I spent most of my life stuck in a fixed mindset, always scanning rooms to see who was better, smarter, or more worthy than me. And let’s be real, that mental loop had me convinced that I needed to earn my place over and over again.

But what changed everything?

I realized that your cup is refillable. Even if there’s only a drop in it… that drop is proof you can fill it again. Whether you’re feeling half-empty or bone dry, your ability to change your perspective will change your results.

Sharon and I get personal. I open up about my own struggles growing up, how failure has become my best teacher, and why trying to always be the smartest in the room is a surefire way to never grow.

You’ll hear us chat about:

  • Why “not being ready” is a myth
  • How to reframe failure as a win
  • The danger of labeling yourself (like “awkward” or “not good at small talk”)
  • Why being present is more powerful than being perfect
  • How 98% of your daily thoughts are negative—and how to flip that stat on its head

Sis, this isn’t just theory. These are mindset shifts that I had to learn the hard way—because I was tired of watching other people succeed and wondering why I felt stuck.

So if you’ve ever thought, “Who am I to start this business, launch this offer, show up online?”… I want to flip that question:

Who are you not to?

You are not your past. You are not your fear. And you are certainly not someone who needs to “qualify” for their own dreams.

I hope this shortie episode is the permission slip you’ve been waiting for to step boldly into your next chapter—messy middle and all.

Let’s rewrite your story together. ✨

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[00:45] Why you’ll never feel ready until you consistently show up—and how confidence is built through action.

[01:53] A mindset shift: The cup isn't half full or half empty—it’s refillable. Learn how to reframe lack into possibility.

[03:09] How shifting from a fixed mindset to a growth mindset unlocks new levels in life and business.

[04:35] Discover the shocking statistic about daily negative thoughts—and why awareness is the first step to change.

[06:35] Reframing the label “awkward” and what it actually says about your behavior in social situations.

[08:15] What happens when you overthink social interactions—and how to shift into presence and connection.

[09:57] The truth about feeling pressure to be “on” all the time—and what it means to embrace authenticity instead.

🎧 Listen to the full episode: Unqualified? Unfunded? Uneducated? GOOD, Now Go Start a Business: Tips with Sharon Says So, >>HERE<<

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